I remember when my son was around two years old and still wasn’t talking. At first, I told myself he would catch up. But deep down, I knew something felt different.

By the time he was diagnosed with autism at three, I felt overwhelmed with fear, questions, and uncertainty. I didn’t know how to help him express what he needed… and that was one of the hardest parts.

We went through speech therapy, occupational therapy, ABA, feeding therapy—everything we could. And slowly, through consistency and learning from amazing therapists, things began to change.

My son started communicating. He found his voice in ways that worked for him. Today, he reads, writes, and thrives in school.

But those early years taught me something important: our kids don’t always need complicated tools… they need simple, clear ways to understand themselves.

That’s why I created Spillman Speaks—and why I created this book.

The Solution:

This book helps your child begin to understand what’s happening inside their body and mind. Instead of feeling lost or overwhelmed, they start to recognize their emotions and connect them to simple words.

You’ll notice your child becoming more confident in expressing their needs—whether it’s asking for a hug, needing a break, or saying they feel worried.

For you, it brings relief. Instead of guessing or reacting in the moment, you’ll have a gentle tool to guide your child through emotions step by step.

Over time, this creates calmer moments, stronger communication, and a deeper connection between you and your child.